Healing With Lauren

Healing With Lauren Marie

Healing With Lauren Marie

Certified Attachment Theory Coach

About Me

Start Your Healing Journey

My mission is to help people heal their attachment wounds at the root so they can reprogram old patterns, feel emotionally safe in relationships, and move toward secure, fulfilling connection. No matter where you’re starting, you are not broken. Your attachment style is not fixed. It was conditioned in childhood, and with the right tools, it can change.

 

WHY I BECAME AN INTEGRATED ATTACHMENT THEORY COACH

The painful ending of a relationship with a dismissive avoidant is what first led me into the world of attachment theory. What began as a search for answers became a deep commitment to understanding dismissive avoidant attachment, eventually leading me to become certified in Integrated Attachment Theory. Today, I bring both lived experience and professional training to this work, helping dismissive avoidant individuals heal at the root, while also supporting those navigating dismissive avoidant dynamics as they gain clarity, rebuild self-trust, and move toward healthier relationships.

 

HOW I HELP YOU HEAL

In our work together, the first step is identifying your attachment style — your blueprint for how you love, connect, and respond in relationships. From there, we uncover your core wounds, limiting beliefs, emotional patterns, boundaries, communication patterns, and coping mechanisms. These are the subconscious programs shaping your relationships until they are identified, reprogrammed, and healed.

Whether you’re a dismissive avoidant who wants to build emotional capacity and stop shutting down, or someone feeling anxious, confused, or emotionally depleted in a dismissive avoidant dynamic, I teach you science-backed tools to rewire the patterns keeping you stuck.

You will learn how to:

  • Identify and reprogram core wounds and subconscious beliefs driving your relationship patterns
  • Understand your needs, express them clearly, and meet them in healthier ways
  • Learn nervous system regulation tools to manage triggers in real time
  • Build healthier communication and conflict-repair skills so issues can be resolved instead of avoided
  • Set and uphold clear boundaries so you can stop people-pleasing and express yourself without guilt or fear
  • Develop the capacity for deeper intimacy and secure connection


This work is transformational because it heals the root of the problem, not just the surface symptoms. I help you rewire attachment patterns at the subconscious level for lasting change, so you can create the best relationships of your life.

As you integrate this work, you begin moving toward secure attachment, where trust, emotional safety, consistency, and deeper connection become your new normal.

I’m here to guide you through that transformation with honesty, compassion, and a direct, supportive approach that helps you feel safe, understood, and empowered every step of the way.

The subconscious mind controls about 95% of our thoughts, emotions, and behaviors every day. This means that many of the patterns keeping you stuck in painful relationships are deeply ingrained beneath the surface. That’s why just understanding your attachment style and core wounds isn’t enough—true healing happens when you reprogram those wounds on a subconscious level.

The quality of our relationships determines the quality of our lives.